I was thinking about how incredible it is that one person can touch so many lives simply by showing up as their most authentic self.
Last week, my friend's dad, Bev, passed away at ninety-six. With Lori's permission, I feel inspired to share a little about Bev and how his kindness did just that – touch my life in such a meaningful way.
Fourteen years ago, I was going through a challenging time, and Lori suggested we spend a weekend with her parents at their home. They lived on the water, and the added adventure of taking a little boat to their home on a lake tucked away amongst trees sounded heavenly.
When we arrived, her parents welcomed me with smiles and open arms. I instantly felt comfortable and at home.
Over the weekend, Bev and I had some great chats. We sat in lawn chairs at the side of the lake under a beautiful tree. It was so peaceful. Nothing else existed.
Bev had a very colorful life and was a fabulous storyteller. I would sit back and enjoy listening to him reflect on and share about the adversity he had overcome and how he now lived a life with immense gratitude and a depth of spirituality.
He had so much wisdom and was also very humble. Over those few days, we connected, laughing and crying together. It was a healing and restorative weekend for me.
Over the years, Bev and I kept in touch over the phone. He always made me laugh and put a smile on my face. At the end of each call, I can hear his voice now saying, 'Diane, there is so much to be grateful for.'
What touches me so deeply about Bev is how he cared about people and always gave back. He was engaged with his community and always offered what he could without expecting anything in return.
Lori told me that during the last few days of his life, she was so touched by how many people came to see Bev and shared stories of how he had impacted their lives.
When Lori told me last week that her dad did not have much longer to live, I took time to sit and reminisce about our chats over the years and the impact.
Bev truly cared about people.
With his passing, I am reminded of how precious life is and how the simplest of acts can have the most impact on our lives and the lives of those around us.
May we be present.
May we be kind.
May we be humble.
May we be grateful.
May we be there for others in their time of need, even if that is as simple as sitting and listening.
Love,
Diane